“What’s your favorite color?”
Sounds like a simple question — but it can be surprisingly revealing.
Over time, I’ve noticed that our connection to color is more than just preference. It reflects who we are, what we desire, and the emotional energy we are aligned with in different chapters of life.
My favorite color has always been blue. At first, I never questioned why—I just loved every shade of it. But as I grew and evolved, I realized that blue symbolizes what I want most in my life: peace, stability, and harmony. It represents calm waters, clear skies, and emotional balance.
But it wasn’t always blue.
There were seasons of my life defined by:
Earth Tones
When I needed grounding, consistency, and something to anchor myself to.
These colors symbolized reliability and the desire to feel secure.
Pink
When love, softness, connection, and passion were at the center of my world.
This was a time of emotional openness and longing for warmth.
Blue
Represents a season of alignment, healing, and inner calm.
Watching my color preferences shift taught me something valuable:
We transform in ways we often don’t notice. Sometimes even through the colors we feel drawn to.
Color becomes a quiet language of the soul, expressing emotions we may not have words for.
What About People Who Don’t Have a Favorite Color?
I’ve met many people who say they don’t have a favorite color at all.
To me, that doesn’t mean they’re unsure or disconnected — it may mean they’re:
* Living in the moment
*Open to possibilities
*More influenced by mood than by identity
* In a season of flowing rather than choosing
Not having a favorite color can also reflect a flexible or evolving identity — someone who doesn’t feel defined by one thing and is comfortable shifting, trying, or exploring.
Color as a Mirror of Transformation
Our favorite colors can shift as we grow, heal, or enter new chapters in our lives.
They change as our emotional landscape changes.
They speak for us when we are still figuring out what we feel.
So now I ask you:
What’s your favorite color today?
And what might it reveal about the season of life you’re in?
Share below — I’d love to hear your reflections.
